Thankyou so much for your input guys

Thankfully I am not a dumb person and i realise taht i will be told a lot of crazy things over the next few months, thats why it is great to be able to run things by you guys, thanks again.

When she was saying this to me i was thinking that it would surely be against the law to not sterilise dummies and swap them between babies. Thankfully i have very little contact with this woman so i probably won't have any more horror stories from her :-#