Hi Everyone,
Thanks for your responses.

I am starting to do more finger food type things. I actually need some ideas!!!!

Astrid - She does go to daycare and apparently she eats just fine with the others.

Liz - I will see if I can find those tongs.

Sherrie - She has the whole Dora set of eating utensils, unfortunately she loves to look at the pics instead of feed herself with them.

Nic - I haven't gone down the game path yet. I might try that too.

Honestly I think she is just lazy atm. In saying that we had home made pizza tonight and she ate the whole lot herself. Mainly because it has cheese on it!!! She loves cheese.