I hear you baby! I feed Ryan to sleep, and he won't take a bottle either. This gives the Man the irrates as he wants me to get him into day care sometimes so that I can have more uninterrupted time for my business. Or so that we could get the two littlies babysat so we could go out for dinner.

If you don't want to leave him babysat fore longer, then don't. If you do, you won't enjoy yourself while you are outside that front door, and more than likely you will cut whatever it is short just to get back to him.

Tell everyone who offer that you really appreciate their offers, know they are trying to take a load off you, but its not a load. Also say that when he's stopped bf (whenever that is, don't let them rush you again), then you will remember their offer.