if there is anyway to decide once bub is born then i would do that. you really can't guess how you will feel, as u really have no idea until bubs arrives... also depends what sort of labour and birth experience you have, if u have a csection etc etc and how well you recover....

i really couldn't even cope with visitors let alone being away from home with the entire family, but that was just me, i had post traumatic stress looking back and was in a right mess for the first 3-4 months.

you might cope famously well, and if so, you might decide to go.... but if you aren't sure i definitely wouldn't commit to going. all the advice and people telling you what to do etc can really shake your confidence in those first few weeks and do your head in - and there would be no escape!!

also if you go past your due date you may have only just had the baby and still be in hospital come easter... good luck whatever you decide.