B speaking from experience here....

DS was a difficult baby at best - poor sleeper and silent reflux on meds until he was about 18mths - but we really wanted the kids to be close together so when DS started to drop feeds at about 10 months we started ttc. Ttc w Jake was first cycle success, but was also after a 4 month hiatus post partial molar pg treatment, but this time it took us ages. We had an early mc and things just weren't happening. I honestly feel it was a combo of stress and the fact that I was working too hard, not looking after myself too well and my body just wouldn't have coped there and then. We finally got an appt to see a fertility specialist, with a 4-5week wait, and the day before our appt we got a BFP.

SO I guess what I can say drawing from our experience that no matter how hard you plan sometimes the universe, your body everything else works together when it is the RIGHT time for it to happen, not when the time is right for you to make it happen IYKWIM.

xxx