Was thinking I would use the cot for the newy.... but it might be a good idea to tackle the issues separately as you suggested Lucy, getting rid of the grobag first then trying the big bed at a later stage..... the baby isn't due until February so I have a bit of time, just wanted to try and stall and future problems!!

Has anyone had any success with the barriers to keep there littlies in the bed or are they a waste of money...?

L.