Nic. DS1 is not a "tanty" child at all, but sometimes does this - he might get upset at me cutting something the wrong way, or even just that I cut it. On occassion it has even because the slice of bread had a hole in it! What is it with food and 3yos???

I think the best way to handle it is to basically ignore it. I see it as a power struggle, so it's best not to buy into it. I might try to distract him and then hope he forgets the problem and just eats it, or otherwise just calmly say to him that that's his meal, he can eat it or get down and go to bed.

Now, having said that, it's a great theory, but definitely easier said than done! Usually they are good at picking a time when you are already stressed, so staying calm is almost impossible. But the theory is good. So I guess if there is a next time (and hopefully there won't be), see if you can try it. And if you do get upset, don't feel bad. They know how to push buttons at that age, and I guarantee you that there is not a mum in the world who can stay calm through all these storms! GL.