Some days it is hard but then there are other days where there is more then enough time. I am probably the most unorganised person I know yet I still find time to do things with the kids. Having a supportive partner really helps I think. Or at least great family support. I do find at the moment my older 2 do miss out a little when I am dealing with the younger 2 but we make up for it in different ways.

I think you just deal with what the day brings. I know I couldn't have imagined having another child when I had my first and due to some circumstances he was an only child till he was just over 4 and that really suited us at the time. 2,3 & 4 are all approx 2 years (give or take a couple months) apart. It is even easier once you have more then 1 or at least I found this

but my houseworkis always behind and the washing well it gets done eventually lol..

it does get easier as they get older to. or at least I have found this..