I think you are a saint! For everyone, sleep issues equals maniac cranky people. It is so normal to feel like you are!! Fwiw I have been a bit rough with dd when she won't lie still etc. It sux, but it happens and we gave to move on and try to improve.

Ok, so let's try and solve this. What if you really shook things up and just tried to pretend she doesn't need a day sleep. Just wing it each day and if she seems tired, just take her for a walk In the pram.

The for nights, would you consider putting her in a bed and sleeping in the same room as her? Maybe get her to sleep on a matress on the floor of your room.

Take the path of least resistance hun. stop trying and just let it happen. It's hard, but once you let it all go...all your expectations etc, you will feel so much better.

Hth and you dont think I'm a crazy hippy lady. I just want you to feel confident again that you're an awesome mummy!!