And it can be one part of her routine that doesn't change once the bub is here, so it could increase her sense of security itms.
That's exactly how one friend explained it to me....something that is "hers" to herself to enjoy, and not related to the baby in any way??

Thanks girls for your replies. It's such a hard decision to make!!!! I think for me to decide I need to go up to the kindy and talk to them and meet the carers and take a tour, THEN I'll know if it's right for me and DD.

I don't have any family help during the week as all family live at least 1hr away (which we don't mind!! LOL!) and my Mum is still working and DH's parents are always off travelling. and we don't rely on others help anyway.

I just think about once the baby is here and will I "need" that one day a week to just me and the baby and it's space for DD too for herself?? I won't really know until the baby is here and then it will be too late to get her in....