Thanks for your replies ladies.

Doudou we dont really have a routine, i kinda just let him do what he wants and follow his lead. Unfortunately when things get predictable he goes and changes again. Love it how they do that! I do try and just go with it when he starts screaming in public. Sometimes I feel like i am doing it mainly for the people looking at me as i am screaming inside. Its getting to the point that I am getting scared of going out with him as i dont want to feel out of control.

CourtRach thannks for the support. I know what you say is true and thank you for the new perspective about him laughing more with others. I never really thought about it that way.

What gets me the most is when my mum or mil will tell me how lucky i am to have such an "easy " baby. I tell them that he isn't always so easy but they always brush it off as me being over the top coz their children were much harder than their precious grandson lol! I sometimes wonder why if he is so easy do i struggle so much sometimes...