Hmm my naughty mat didn't last long and both the girls are pushing me at the moment so i think it's back into a plan of action.

1. Remove them from the situation - ie. if yelling at each other etc seperate them and each gets a punishment.
2. Remain Calm - i'm so so sick of yelling and screaming and being the horrible one
3. Follow through - i'm about ready to throw ALL their toys out a window.. no more threats i'm going to pick 1 and do it.