Lynn, DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS THINK YOU SHOULD DO. You are Ethan's mummy, you know what is best for him. If you feel it is causing more problems, it probably is. Seriously, everytime I listen to other's well-meaning advice, things seem to get so much worse for us until I stop it and go back to what I think is best.

You're doing a great job hun, trust your mummy instincts, they will be right!