Easier for me! Having DS was a huge shock to the system for me - difficult birth then adjusting to having a baby and the lack of sleep and feeding. DS was not a very settled baby early on and he was colicky for the first 3 months as well. There is 21 months between him and his 3 yo sister, and DD was just so easy going, and so easy to settle. Much better birth too. And I had no trouble with having 2 in nappies - if anything, it makes life easier as you are not having to deal with toilet training and accidents.