You are not unusual, and I'm really surprised there was party food at a playgroup session. I thought they were usually restricted to healthy snacks??

I'd love to do the whole organic thing, but we eat soooo much fruit and vege, I think I'd go bust if we bought all organic. Jenna loves her fruit too, and yes sometimes we let her have junk food, but I can't be a food nazi. Like last night we went to her grandfathers house, and there is always a plastic bag on the fridge with a treat in it. Sometimesits cheese and bikkies, but usually its choccy. It drives me mental, so I just try and make sure she has eaten dinner before we go over there.

Jenna also has a nose rash thing at the moment, and I'm wondering if its food allergies, the Dr seems to think its just a kid thing, but if I wantedto eliminate all the crap from her diet, it would take us soooooo long,and it would be such a battle!

Generally I think most parents try to do healthy food, and limit the amount of preservatives/additives etc in the diet.
I think you have to do what feels right for you, and as long as the occasional bit of treat food sneaks in, Amy should grow up knowing that not all junk food is bad, and everything in moderation.

The worst jenna has on a regular basis is her milk arrowroot "dip-dipped" in mums tea every morning. I dont know how we are going to break her of this one! Mind you, after this today she had a banana, milk, and some frozen peas, so its not like she's unhealthy

Stick to your guns. Its noone else that will deal with you child if she's feral or if she gets allergies. Its your right to control what she eats.