My only advice would be to go with your heart. You may not want another one right now but you may change your mind. People won't like this either. You supposed to plan everything, didn't you know?

I only wanted two kids close together because I thought anymore would be too hard (got 3 brothers,1 sister)and if they weren't close in age then it wouldn't work. Now I've had DS2 14 years later and his big sister and brother love him and it has really brought a new dimention to our family. Will I have another one 'to keep Paddy company' as everyone says? Who knows. What I do know is that having more than one child hasn't taking anything away from our family but added to it.