Personally I'm not a fan and I don't want to do anything to my girls until they are ready and they ask. I was 12 when I got mine done and it was my "gift" for finishing primary school. I am glad I waited as it made me appreciate them and it is something special to me. I would like that for my daughters too.

Also I would never do something like that without consulting DP - he would be angry and extremely hurt. With anything like that where it is something special or a "first" he wants to be there to be a part of it.