but I thinkI would have had a harder time if I actually felt like I could "do better" and get him to sleep longer. Sometimes I think the expectation you put on yourself as a mum can make you feel worse than you otherwise would IYKWIM?
Completely agree. If i'd spent the last 14 months worrying about him not sleeping through... it would have been the most miserable 14 months. We just go with it, and have enjoyed it. Night time feeds are actually some of the loveliest, and I'm glad I've got to experience LOTS of them! hehe.