I got so mad reading it too! I had a situation once where my FIL's partner just snatched my DD right out of my arms, without asking! I had no idea she was going to do it. And then I felt like such a bad mum for letting someone snatch her out of my own arms! My DD cried and cried and cried. And the stupid partner kept trying to settle her and saying "oh she must have wind". No she just wants to be back with me!! Some people are so thoughtless.

I agree with using the HAB. And when it came time to feeding her I'd find a spare room somewhere and not tell anyone that I was going there.