Scared Baby

[Mel86]

Mayaness thank you so much That is what I thought originally cuddle whenever I can lol. My DP got a lil upset last night kus I snatched Jonathan out of his arms when he was gasping for breath, so we will be having a deep and meaningful this afternoon because he needs to realise that I am mum and if my lil man is crying he needs his mummy. I am a bit worried about talking to him about it because I don't want him to think that I am being selfish or unreasonable. But what got me the most last night was the fact that after he scared him and he was crying really badly he didnt really do anything (like calming him down), whereas if it was me holding him I would get up and walk around with him and talk softly to him. I know that DP is as new at this as I am but for some reason this time I just felt really angry about the whole thing and I felt as though at the time I could have just lost it at DP. I really just dont like seeing my lil one upset. Am i being selfish and overprotective or am I being reasonable?
How would you approach the situation of talking about it? I asked my mum and she said just say how you feel, but me and DP have been together for just over 8 months and not had one argument whereas myself and my ex argued all the time and I am scared of getting into that pattern again.

By the way I have also googled Pinky Mackay and I will be reading that this afternoon.