Nope - not wrong and not a problem. We did the same thing, it is a phase and it will pass. But I would ignore MIL's comments - they are the reason that your DD screams if she tries to hold her!! They know......

I have found doing all this that you naturally learn when it is time to start separating yourselves, and it certainly isn't at such a young age. Follow your instinct.... it won't steer you wrong! You know how to be the best mother for your children to match with your circumstances and beliefs. Try not to let anyone make you doubt yourself.