Ouch! I didn't see this until now.

I don't make a huge fuss, if she is cuddling or sitting on my lap when her hands there then that is fine but its the pinching and biting of them thats the most annoying (maybe i should have made that more clear) and also if i hear ONE more time that she is still a baby i will scream!!!! i KNOW she is a baby but i dont TALK to her like she is a baby! She understands me quite well, most the time when i say "please don't do that" she will stop. But its the being spiteful and continuing to do it thats the problem and usually by then i put her on the floor and i say no to her. Or i get up and walk away.
Ouch??

OK sorry if I hit a nerve!

Look I think if you honestly believe she is being spiteful and intentionally doing it to hurt you or whatever ... take her to see a MCHN. She is 15 months old?? I do not see how a baby (yes I know I said it again) can deliberately be spiteful ..... sorry I just cannot.

Oh FWIW you do not need to talk to her like a baby, in fact there is nothing I hate more than people talking to babies like they are idiots, but honestly she does NOT have the capacity to be doing things deliberately to cause you harm. She cannot rationalise her actions, she is not plotting against you.

You came in here looking for suggestions and solutions to your daughters "obsession" as you put it and I pointed out a few things like not making a big deal about it... take it however you want.

Nae