Where did i say she is 'plotting against me'?? When i tell her to be gentle she smacks me, she will scream "No!" and smack me but im suppose to just put that down to she didn't understand what i said to her?? I'm sorry but i like to think that my daughter understands a little bit. Obviously i don't expect her to say sorry or feel bad i just want her to be more gentle and not to hit or bite me.

By me calling it an 'obsession' i was making a joke of it! I apologise again if that didn't come across as that way...

And i asked why she was obsessed i honestly didn't think of it as a comfort thing.. ive never seen it or heard of it..