I have to agree with Joh. Amazing the things they will tell you in reference to how a 'normal' child should be. Maddy will be 14 months old in a fortnight. She only began to start sleeping through the night at around 10 months old, and that was with generally a 1am feed. It didn't matter what time I fed or put her to bed, she needed that middle-of-the-night feed for security, to help her through the night.

If you're happy with your current situation than try to take the comments with a grain of salt and continue doing what feels good for you. Maddy was still having anywhere up to 4 feeds from 7pm through to 6am at that age, and it didn't stop her from eating solids.

This worked personally for us, but I found moving Maddy into her own bedroom at about 6 months a godsend. Yes, you do need to get out of bed to feed them but I found she slept much more soundly in a separate room than she ever did in ours. She was never made to feel deserted in moving her into her room for night sleeps. Maddy was put to bed awake and told the same thing every night. I can't comment on the wrapping as Maddy hated it from the beginning and I think we stopped attempting to wrap her at about 2 months old. Miss Houdini.

Could she be teething? I found that whenever Maddy started getting into a better sleep pattern at night, she would throw it all out the window a few weeks later when she'd cut a new tooth.

Do what you feel is best hon, it is frustrating when they try putting all babies into the same basket when they're not. I even tried feeding Maddy longer at her bed feed (7pm) but it didn't change when she woke up for feeds. It was obviously something she just needed at the time (comfort, growth spurts etc) and she soon settled down and started to drop her feeds herself.

Good luck hon!