Im going through the same thing that you are so I know how confused you are feeling!! It's now the 16th of Feb - did you end up going to Sleep Centre?? If so how did it go? Elyssa is 10 months old and I just stopped wrapping her at 8 months. She liked to be wrapped, it helped settle her so I kept doing it until I noticed she didn't need it anymore.

In regards to feeding at night - Elyssa also has one to two feeds at night. I was breastfeeding until a month ago and she used to almost always fall asleep at the breast (which I was told was a big no no - oops!!) I find if she wakes up in the middle of the night and I dont give her a feed we'll be up with her for hours but if I give her a quick feed we all get back to sleep very quickly - sometimes she still doesnt settle and ends up in bed with us (which according to alot of people is also a big mistake!).

I was thinking about going to a sleep clinic with her but at the end of the day I know what they are going to do there which is control cry and I dont want to do that. I control cried my son when he was 18 months old and that worked out well but Im not ready to do that with Elyssa yet. She's still my little baby and Im enjoying being able to comfort her like no one else can.

We just moved so we decided to put Elyssa in her own room instead of with us which is where she previously was. I have to say that it does help with her being in her own room because sometimes she will settle herself and go back to sleep when she wouldn't have before when she could see me. Also she a very light sleeper so she sleeps better in her own room.

I say listen to your heart and do what feels right for you and your baby. Don't be forced to do anything you dont want to do because you're told that your baby 'should' be doing this and 'should' be doing that.

Good luck with everything!!