Well.. Tallon still has big feeds over night (once or twice).. eats 3 solid meals a day.. I feed him to sleep almost every sleep...and he doesn't go to bed for 'big' sleeps until about 9.30/10.00.

He's a happy, healthy little boy... so ... I must be doing something wrong huh. LOL.

I've had the controlled crying pressure from a few people, but thankfully those people don't live with us.. so really, whatever we do, doesn't affect them.. so just ignore their comments I say.

Tallon is in his own room, but ends up in our bed with his early morning feed.. but sometimes he'll only settle in our bed, so spends the whole night with us. We do whatever works at the time.

Keep following your instincts Kelly.. sounds like everything is very normal in your household. If you're happy, and bub is happy.. why change it??