Oh Rachel, I feel for you. I have a 2 1/2 year old that co-sleeps with us (not by choice) but it is the only way that we get any sleep. I also have a 13 week old and he even sleeps through the night - no problems. My DS was the same and we eventually took him into our bed because it was the ONLY way but looking back it was the worst thing we could have done (sorry, I don't mean to offend anyone)! I miss cuddling and snuggling with my hubby because DS is in the middle of us. He just refuses to go into his own bed. I know people out there are saying "who is the parent, you have to be tough" we have tried and tried and even got to the point where we paid a childhood nurse / midwife to come into our home to show us how to get him to sleep in his bed.... This worked for about 1 week and then it started all over again. I am sorry I haven't been of much help but I know how frustrating it is and I am hearing everything you are saying. At the end of the day you need your sleep and you have to do what you can but boy it's hard and it doesn't get any easier - especially when they WILL NOT sleep or even attempt to sleep in their own bed. Good Luck... xxoo