thanks girls

Jac he was up too 1 1/2mths ago would go down semi awake no dramas but at ou rholiday home he sleeps in living area so when he was ready to go down for night we would put him on our bed, and then transfer him

but since we have got home he wont go in cot to fall asleep he will pass out on our bed or lounge or futon and then transfer he always used to sleep thru but this waking is a new thing

and yes I dont want to co-sleep every night I dotn mind the occasional ealry morning wake up and sleep in together but not every night

well anyway lets see how we go tonight, he had a 1/2 hr nap all day *yawn* anyway he settle himself to sleep on the futon but he self settle so better than nothing, and is in bed by 8.30pm woooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!! big thing for us, hoping he stays down now, I did :blush: give him some nurofen tonight in case it is teeth bothering him during night, I thought panadol would wear off by the 2am wake up bit where as nurofen will last longer