This is really interesting, I was thinking about the same thing the other day...wondering how I would handle this situation.

One of the women I work with is a smoker and when she comes back into the office after having one she REEKS! (Sorry don't mean to offend anyone but when you are a smoker you just don't know. And some are worse than others).

So I was wondering how I would feel when I take bub over to the office for a visit (already promised, and over the road from home, so quite unavoidable) and this woman asks for a cuddle?

FWIW I used to be a smoker, so no judgement here...


Or bring up smoking and newborns in a converstion and mention how your husband feels about it (takes the heat of you IYKWIM?)

I think that's a pretty good idea....