Thanks girls.

Our routine is rock solid. He just goes berserk as part of that routine it seems. I do plonk him on tge floor when he hits but tgere is no point where he'll settle down after this happens. its like once the switch is flicked. .. theres no going back. no amount of explaining or soothing cuts it and if I pick him up again he won't let me put him down without the tantrum starting all over again.

Swimming is out for at least a month- he has a cast on after recent foot surgery.

I am seriously concerned not that there are tantrums .... but tge sheer force behind them and the frequency. hes screaming more than hes happy. While on the post op ward everyone stared as I tried to soothe a 90min long screamfest. He wasnt in pain..... it was jyst a change of cast. Babies younger than him were quietly sitting and eating. he was hitting me, throwing his food on the floor and goung mental no matter what we did.

It's hard to explain. I get that certain things will generally set a kid off.... but everything seems to fet him going. This has happened all alobg. since before I was pg. At 3mths old I couldn't walj away for a minute without him screaming.

am I crazy?