You are not crazy at all. Toddlers with tantrums have a way of making you feel that way at times though!

I'm a softy but with DD I did "the nanny" naughty room thing although instead of her bedroom where the toys are and it's fun I put her in the laundry where all chemicals are out of reach and there's absolutely nothing fun in there! She had 2 mins when 2 y/o etc. I too am finding that her behaviour lately as I'm pg is getting naughtier and more clingy, I keep telling her I'm not working any more and I'm home now so we have more time, and as Catastrophic has said I say 'right, I'll play for 5 mins then do some washing and come back to play.'

If your instinct is that something may be underlying then def seek an opinion from your doc or MCHN, but 2 y/olds are challenging as they are learning who they are and that they have a say. I know it's very hard and like you we have absolutely no 'village' of help either and have done everything ourselves. We also haven't been out since before DD came along, can you and your DP go out seperately for some 'grown up' time?

You're doing a great job, don't doubt yourself and a great saying I was told to think of in tough moments is, 'this too shall pass'. Amazingly it does pass and you wonder how you did it but you do and you will, hope things get better for you soon