Thanks guys that was what I was after... Just a few opinions to help me think it all through!!!

Elissa - You can hijack this thread as much as you like... thats what its all here for! I agree we can support each other in these decisions! I would love a blue bubba, but in the same breath would absolutley love another pink bundle!

We have decided to wait til end on May early june to reasses the situation, I think 18+ months is good... and as it was said, 9 months is a looooong time for Kiara to grow and develop!!!

Thanks again guys... it means a lot to get your thoughts