Thanks for all your replies! A dear friend emailed me today and reminded me that even if I do get a rotten pregnancy or a baby that doesn't settle - It isn't forever and I will get through it just as you would pull through if you were a single mum with 6 kids.. and in the end it will all be worth it!

Rochelle will be far from one to go without, as she is such a loved little girl by so many special people. Which is understandable... :P

I am so excited at the prospect of another baby as I love being a Mum so much and feel so blessed! I just hope it doesn't take as long as last time to fall pregnant. Good luck to you too Gracie!

Neuri, I don't think it is selfish to give your child a sibling... I think a happy and loving home is much more important than money! You could have all the money in the world, but would you want your children to grow up in a home where their parents didn't get along? If it absolutely isn't possible for you in the near future... perhaps in a few years you will feel your in a better position to have that much wanted second child GL.