My DH is wonderful, but wouldn't have a clue what to do with the kids! And don't get me started about cooking! When I was in hospital with Nic, I was worried about what he would feed the girls. I wrote up lists everywhere - what day they had sport, what day was library day, what they liked in their lunch boxes etc, but he forgot anyway. As for their lunches, he forgot to pack them at all! He ended up having to go down to the shops and buying them something and taking it up to the school! Thank god he didn't tell me this until after I was home and settled with the new baby!!