I understand where everyone is coming from. Men can't seem to use thier initiative. If DS wakes while I am in the shower and DH is watching tv, he seems to wait until he hears me open the bathroom door before he jumps up and goes to get DS after I have heard him crying for 5 mins. He also asks me to wait until DS is asleep before I leave the house to duck to the shops!! And why do they asume play time with bub is putting them infront of the tv while they watch thier action flicks?