I disagree mbear - my DS cannot have chocolate due to allergies. A good mother doesn't give up her chocolate to her child in my house! A good mother also stops Grandma giving chocolate to her children too. I would die for the lad, but I wouldn't give him chocolate! (He refuses it now anyway.)
...maybe think outside the square and think about something else than chocolate.......i think the point of my post was 'quote: i would do anything for my kids' unquote. That makes ME a good mother in my eyes.