I think at first, i was more in awe, fascinated with Toby. On the 2nd day in hospital, i was staring at his name on the crib and thought "Wow...You're really here!" Toby had been named since i was 10 weeks pregnant (i just KNEW he was a boy!) That was when i fell in love with him...Staring at his name made the realisation sink in!

I told a friend this the same day when she visited us and i made her cry!

I continue to fall in love with him every day

ETA: I just wanna say that this is a wonderful thread. I thought there was something wrong with me because i didn't feel that instant "WHAM!" of love when he was placed on my chest. I mean, i did love him, but didn't have that "falling in love" moment instantly that some ladies speak of. So it's reassuring to see that im not the only one.