Hey there,
I was interested to read this thread, as I'm hoping to keep my DD RF til 12 months.

We got one of the big mirrors (like a teddy with a mirror for tum) so I could see her from the front while driving (precious first time mum, but loving the mirror).

I'm hoping that will help keep her happy, because she can see us too (unlike the smaller mirror thingies).

Hope this helps someone!