(1) to let baby sleep with blanket
We let Matilda sleep with a blanket since she moved to a big girl bed at 16 months

(2) to let baby sleep with pillow
Same, 16 months

(3) to change crib to toddler bed
With Matilda we did it early at 16 months because she kept climbing out of the cot & then back in & landing on her head... it was a safety issue.

(4) to have her feed herself with forks/spoons (not finger food)
Around 12 months we started giving her spoons to play with while we fed her & she started using those spoons to feed herself. They were the plastic big ones.... we gradually moved her onto plastic forks.

(5) to give her peanut butter
After 2 years. We only just tried with Matilda who is 2 1/2 and she wouldn't eat it. I am allergic to peanuts so I didn't see any reason to encourage her to eat it.

(6) to potty train
When they are ready. Around 3yrs

(7) to tell her when we get pg with #2 (no not even ttc yet!!)
We started talking about it when Matilda was 22 months and I was 8 weeks pg.