(1) to let baby sleep with blanket
Aidyn has only had a proper quilt since he moved into his bed at nearly 3yo - before that he was in grobags. He has been taking his little 'blankie' to bed with him since 9 months old though - it was his favourite polar fleece wrap which I cut into quarters so it wasnt too big or dangerous to him to take with him.

(2) to let baby sleep with pillow
We gave Aidyn a junior pillow at around 2yo.

(3) to change crib to toddler bed
We have just put Aidyn in a single bed (from his cot) at 2yrs 8months old.

(4) to have her feed herself with forks/spoons (not finger food)
He had spoons from around 12 months, and forks were a bit later. he still usually only eats with a spoon (or his fingers) and not a fork though.

(5) to give her peanut butter
I tried him on peanut butter around 2yo - and he came out with a reaction to it straight away. You do not have to have a history of anaphylaxis to be wary of it. We have no history of any food allergies at all - and yet he has quite a few allergies. The recommended age to start them on peanut butter is 2yo, but I have also heard it can be 5yo.

(6) to potty train
He is 2 and 8 months and still isnt quite ready to start.

(7) to tell her when we get pg with #2 (no not even ttc yet!!) LOL no idea about this one!