Well, I wanted 2. I had it all planned. A girl, then a boy & I'd be done.
Didn't DD2 throw a spanner in the works!!
So, we went back for the boy. We got him! Life was pretty sweet (mostly)

Then the suprise... I always said I'd consider another if I could guarantee a boy. But I couldn't, so wasn't interested. I now know I was definetely done at 3, but I am enjoying number 4 just as much as the rest of them