why did you have the number of children you have?

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We wanted a boy and a girl, I know that sounds selfish to some but thats what we wanted. Sure if we'd had all boys or all girls we'd be happy but DH feels because we've got one of each we'll stop at two (much to MIL's disappointment). But who knows I think financially our restrictions are set to two, but if things go well with my upcoming career I may be able to sway him into considering number three. But in all honesty I am happy. I have 2 bubbas they are both so wonderful and individual. We also wanted to be finished having kids by the time I was 25, I really wanted to be a young parent. My grandparents were young and they were able to enjoy their grandkids and have lots of fun with them. DD' great grandparents are the same age as some of her friends grandparents. So if we go for number 3 it won't be till I'm about 29-30. We would have definitely went for number 3 had DS been an Averlie but as it is I think we're very happy.

I do have a friend that had #3 because she has a fear of one of her children dying and not having the support of another sibling to help them through it.