How are you coping, mate? You have the night shift too atm don't you so how are you getting any sleep at all? I wish I lived closer.

I think you've covered everything I could have thought of and more so I have no suggestions, just love and support if you need it.

The apnoea theory seems likely reading that. Poor little thing.

Could it be the pain from the ear infection? Have you raised the top of the cot a bit? But you said you've tried the HAB so she would have been upright then.

I don't know sweetherat but I hope you sort it out soon.