I am really at my wits end with my eldest child.

I dont think its all her problem either.

She is very very demanding, and constantly throws tantrums and has fits over anything.
Even the most smallest things she will tanty over. She throws things, storms off most of the time to another room.

If she doesnt want her dinner she will make herself throw it up.

Yet she only does this for me and her dad.

At daycare and occasional care and my parents house she is a angel.

My parents wont tolerate her doing that and they seem to have more of a impact on her then me.

I dont tolerate it either but how many times i day do i have to put her in the corner or take her toys away from her. She doesnt listen to me at all.\

Seriously we are talking a tantrum at least every half an hour when she doesnt get her own way.

I take her to playgroup and do alot to entertian her but its just not good enough and i cant seem to get her to care about disapline. I have thought about throwing out her toys but i dont know if i can cause i paid a fair bit of money for most of them and she doesnt get stuff brought for her all the time either. so she isnt spoilt.

i am really beginning to think that my parenting skills are cr@p. I cant keep her happy and feel bad that i spend most of the day yelling at her and telling her off.

I have made special times for her to get one on one attention and even my sis and her nana take just her out for special big girl outings, so i have no idea what to do.

i feel bad in saying i am really not liking this part of her. I love her to death but cant handle this.