Advice needed for 22 month old toddler (BOY)

[Mollygirl]

I agree with keeping him in daycare. My son was 2.5years old when my daughter was born and we kept taking him to daycare, two days a week.

He didn't like it if DH was home from work but didn't seem to notice that I was at home.

I am going back to work when DD is 9mths old and I think it will disrupt him less when I go back to work because things won't change for him again.

All you can do is see how it goes and take it from there.

Personally, I cherish those two days with DD, because she gets one on one time, which she will never have again when I go back to work and he had 6mth fulltime of it.

Goodluck!

[momos26]

I was surprised to see the comments about DH being more painful than DS.

I must be really lucky, because DH and myself keep the exact same routine all the time. We all about working together not against.

It was orginally my DH consideration as to whether or not we sent DS to daycare or keep him at home...... It really was an after thought for me.

I must be really lucky because I couldn't survive some days without him and with my pregnancy insanity he seems to cope really well.

[~Trish~]

Ooh, let me just say I don't think my DH is more painful! He was a wonderful help when DS2 was born and he took care of DS1 the whole time. It was just that DS1 wasn't used to having his daddy at home (that in itself was a change of routine) and DH didn't handle him the same way as I would have because he doesn't normally spend all day every day with him. Just wanted to say I wasn't having a dig at my DH in the slightest! I don't know what I'd do without him