I was surprised to see the comments about DH being more painful than DS.

I must be really lucky, because DH and myself keep the exact same routine all the time. We all about working together not against.

It was orginally my DH consideration as to whether or not we sent DS to daycare or keep him at home...... It really was an after thought for me.

I must be really lucky because I couldn't survive some days without him and with my pregnancy insanity he seems to cope really well.