catherinemoses- thanks for the advice. we have elevated her bassinette but might try the wedge pillow too.
Beema- yeah i know what you mean!! Lily is 11 weeks and people still ask 'how many days old is she'? they look at me very strange when i say 11 weeks...even if i said 5 weeks they would still look shocked i think!! i cant wait for her to catch up, although is soooo cute, even though she is tiny!
sunshine_sieben- sounds exactly like my little one!!!! i think i can handle 3 months of this...fingers crossed its not too much longer