thanks for that Human Bean! Yeah the feeding has been really tough but I really wanted to keep going so just keep giving myself short goals which keeps up my sanity. Will keep trying to stick it out

It does help to know that its normal for bubs to do this, I guess my fear is that while this is going on we might end up doing all the wrong things and make it worse
I understand at the end of the day only we can know her the best so we will keep trying to help her out and hopefully she calms down soon thanks for the book advice too might try and check that one out