Do you know why your OH wants him to eat quicker? Is it so he can have bath and get to bed etc or is just cos OH thinks you he should be able to eat quicker? Is it becoming a power struggle where OH has forgotten why he wants your son to be quicker?

My DD is younger, but i don't want power struggles for no reason. When we have to go somewhere do something, i have to stop meals prematurely or encourage, but if i have the time i would much rather she eat at her own pace. And be able to guage her feelings of hunger and saiety more easily.