Our stuff works the same as Astrid's does. I do the finances, have all the bank cards, do the buget ect AND get bullied into buying "him" stuff more than "me" stuff. We don't have pocket money and if we want something we check with each other. I don't check with him about food, bathroom and baby stuff, also not about clothes for the kids. But anything else, gets run by him.

And yes, I would have been pretty upset if he did something like that without telling me, because that would mean that he "stole" the card out of my purse to buy something ... big no-no, even if it was $2. It's the principal, not the deed.